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Meet someone at 50. Different From 25

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Now I've had three dates with the same woman. What you are looking for at 50 is different from 25. It's no longer a lightning strike when you meet someone at 50 I find. He went against me, seeing all these amazing escorts who are sexually uninhibited over the past 25 years, because it affected the way I look at civilian women. It definitely made me a lot more difficult, which allowed me to be a bachelor for almost my entire life.

I met a lady who has the same ethnicity as me, who has been in Canada for 5 years and is in the last stages of obtaining her permanent residence card. She got married after only 6 months of dating her husband, because at that time she was very religious, and public pressure really pushed the tradition of marriage. She is still religious, but now she only hopes to meet a person with good morals, because her ex-husband should have been a good Christian, but he deceived her at least once. She was a professional musician, and I guess she had a mid-life crisis, partly due to her husband's infidelity and moved to Canada with two children to start over. They are now in the 9th grade and in the first year of university, respectively, and are open for their mother to meet again.

One of the biggest problems I have is his financial situation. Unfortunately, as a first-generation immigrant, her employment opportunities are not so good. She now works as a cook, but hopes that once she gets a permanent place of residence, she will be able to start teaching music full-time. At the expense of alimony, she was able to buy a townhouse and drive a small brand-new Toyota SUV. It seems that she does not feel an urgent need for money, since she works only 24 hours a week. All the costs of raising his children seem to be taken over.

His father was an early deceased university professor, and his mother was a teacher. She was well-mannered and a pleasant person. Partly because of her previous profession as an accompanist, she had to be attractive enough and lead a healthy lifestyle to make hearing cuts. She also does not have a wandering eye, because she passed 5 years without seeing anyone, and focused on raising her children.

I am concerned about his lack of real career prospects and some problems in communication. I don't want to hold this against her because her English is better than my understanding of her native language, and because my parents were first-generation immigrants and also had limited opportunities, but it's in the back of my mind.

I have a lot to lose because I earn over $ 100,000 a year, I'm mortgage-free and have been investing my retirement since I was 20. In ten years, I will also receive a 50% pension. A lot of things seem to be lining up, but I'm wondering if I'm making the financial issue a more important matter than it should be? When I look at it, I constantly ask myself if it will work.

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The women I met in the upper age group of 45 to 60 years, I find that they are overweight and do no type of fitness, they have minimal savings, they rent and they do not have a car

If they have something, they've probably been married at some point and got half when they divorced, then they finally have a house and the job they do is mostly pay for the existing house while they're collecting money from their ex, so I'd stay single

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It's so strange to read such a message. There is nothing about feelings here. You only talk about money, money, money ... it's horrible. Let her be an immigrant or something else. It doesn't make her any worse or better than you. It does not matter who her parents are and how her children live, the main thing is only your feelings. This may seem very naive, but I really believe in it. I also wanted to say that if you are in doubt, you will find here the videochat one that you love

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